Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Karibu and welcome to Africa!




welcome to tanzania!
We had heard about and joined an online community called CouchSurfers- the website helps to connect host families and individuals with traveling ‘couch seekers’. Members add a fairly extensive profile that others can see and ‘surf away’. You can look for potential hosts anywhere, and see their ratings and comments as added by people who have stayed with them. We found and were accepted by a lovely family in Nairobi.
We called the family when we landed in Nairobi, Kenya, and they came to the airport to pick us up, then took us home for bread and tea. The couple had a son in university and a daughter one year older than Raven. We were happy to learn that the husband and wife work flexible hours, so we were driven to tourist sites around the city on our two night stay with them. Of course we filled their gas tank, (we actually stopped at a Shell Station- how crazy was that? I’ve avoided getting gas at Shell for over 20 years- after once hearing that the company supported apartheid and that we should boycott them-habits stick!) paid for their admissions (greatly reduced for locals, just like in most developing countries) bought them lunch and made a spaghetti dinner for the family. The family went over the top- helping us get a bit of internet time, feeding us meals, and the eldest son even gave up his bedroom for us.

The family was proud of their culture and seemed to be well off by African standards. They lived in a thousand square foot two floor concrete house in a gated community. A gate to keep the ‘bad guys out’ but still, picture a dirt road leading to a dirt driveway and the house having a bucket shower.  The little community pools their resources to pay for 2 men who live in a little shack and take turns opening the gates 24/7 for the residents.
We had thought that we may be cold once we arrived in Africa, but it was startling how quickly our bodies re-acclimatized to 20+ degrees. My body feels normal here, returned to its normal energy level as is doesn’t have to expend extra energy constantly cooling itself. My hair also appreciates the level of humidity, as it is not so awkward to tame and feels less dry here.  I noticed the bumpy red skin on my arms disappeared in India, but will probably return now.

On first impression, people don’t seem to dress up like they did in India. I loved seeing the women and girls in their colourful sequined saris. Here the poorer people wear what looks to be Goodwill cast off T-Shirts. Business men wear suits and we have seen a few  women dressed in outfits of patterned African fabric.
There are many similarities to both India and Canada that we have noticed so far. For one, this country appears to use flush toilets and toilet paper! This is mostly for the touristy areas, but we appreciate it. The surroundings look like India- tropical, hoards of people walking, many carrying goods on their heads, dirt roads and dirty traffic pollution. The traffic snarls to a dead stop in Nairobi. Men walk through the traffic selling things car to car- you could purchase anything from a banana to a laminated poster of Jesus. Commuting is much quieter, as people don’t use their horns as frequent communication devices, but there doesn’t appear to be as many smaller vehicles squeaking through the jams and continuously driving through red lights.  The town of “Nair-robbery” appeared smaller than I thought it would be. We drove through the city center in a short amount of time. Driving with the windows most of the way up is prudent, as it is not uncommon for a pedestrian thief to reach into a vehicle at a standstill and make off with what he can grab.
Heath and I were quite concerned about safety in Africa, and our fears weren’t allayed when we were told that their 20 year old son had recently been robbed of his backpack containing his laptop whilst walking home from university; and Nancy’s good friend had died a gunpoint a few weeks ago, as she was mugged.  The advice we were given in the event of an incident was “Don’t look at their faces”. If you struggle or look at them, they will kill you, as you may be able to identify them later. Scary, but good advice.
Extra security occurred by guards at the gates to the tourist sites. The guards would pass a mirror under the car to look for explosives, and it was not unusual to get metal detector-wanded going in to buildings.
We crossed the border in to Tanzania easily, as the small shuttle bus from Kenya stops and waits for us to walk through ‘exit Kenya’ and ‘enter Tanzania’. Visas are obtainable at the border incredibly easily- a cash cow for the country because they want the visa fee in US dollars. One quick computer cam photo, fingerprints and a stamp in our passports. When we arrived in Arusha, the starting point for our adventures, we got out at the last stop. Wanting to avoid taxi and safari touts, we asked directions to the nearest internet cafĂ©. We also needed to confirm that there was a spot in the hostel, as we left Kenya a day ahead of schedule. We were prepared to walk-but the bus shuttle driver drove us the 400 meters to the closest hotel that had internet! That was incredible – talk about being taken care of! With all this chaperoning- I was incredibly nervous when Heath and I had to leave Raven alone to facebook while we walked 600 meters to the nearest ATM to take out Tanzanian shillings- as we had no local currency to pay for the internet service, or a taxi to take us to our hostel. I was worried about being followed and mugged- and in fact there was a young guy that walked with us to the bank (we faked walking into a school as a guise) but then he had turned around and followed us a ways back, too! As time has evolved, I feel a lot safer here- people are just precautious for us- which is nice.


The Ujamaa Hostel has been awesome, as it is targeted for the volunteer crowd. Welcoming, beautiful clean communal areas, with hot water showers, boiled drinking water available and two meals a day. Raven loves it as there are the twenty-something western crowd for her to socialize with. We connected with our tour operators, It Started in Africa for Heath.  Company representatives showed up at the hostel  to brief Heath for his Kilimanjaro attempt , take our extra luggage to be stored at their office, then drove me to buy Raven and my bus tickets to Dar es Sallam for our volunteering and home stay experience.

In the morning the company picked us up, ensuring Rave and I got on the bus, after wishing Heath a successful journey. Our bus ride was ten hours instead of the anticipated eight. The first pee stop was a slight bushy area off the highway. Most of the women on the bus got off and found a small bus to squat behind. A few hours later, we stopped at a spot for lunch. The choice was French fries with or without meat. Luckily there were also fruit vendors, so we could buy two oranges. The coolest part of the trip was the complimentary pop and crackers that were offered to the riders. It Started in Africa had ensured that I had the phone number of the person I was meeting, and the name of the bus stop, Matias- a few kilometers before Dar. When we got there, the bus let us off at the side of the highway-and a guy came up to us, but not the guy we were expecting, but as the bus was late, Baraja (the founder of  It Started in Africa) wasn’t able to meet us. We had to trust- he was a young guy and didn’t show any ID- but he knew who we were- so we followed along with a bit of trepidation.

The sights that greeted us along our twenty minute walk to our home stay weren’t super encouraging. To be honest, we were both near tears- Raven upset and missing her dad- she was worried about our safety without him, and emotional up after our bus was two hours late. The dirt road and wooden outsides to shacks was reminiscent of the ‘wild west’. We shared conversation along the way, veering off the main road onto a dirt pathway past concrete homes and small corn fields. When we arrived at the family’s house we were warmly welcomed with a Swahili “Karibou!” the family was lively and lovely. We sat in the living room making awkward small talk while waiting. Eventually a room was made for us, and we had a late dinner of rice and beans with a side fish dish. There was a father and a mother living in the house with a school aged boy and an adult daughter. It turned out that the daughter, Fatuma, who cooked every meal for us, lived in another house a little ways a way. Others congregated at the house- a college aged boy who was boarding and taking a driving course, and the aunties showed up at various times, sometimes overnight, sometimes not. We stopped keeping track. In the yard they raised chickens, chicks, ducks, and rabbits. Raven fell in love with the puppy of their neglected dog- both tied up on short leads in the dirt. 

the cutest puppy in Matias

Day 2
Last night I had expressed an interest to go to church on the Sunday. Alex, our guide came to collect us in the morning after breakfast of tea, white bread and margarine- on the label it is called “Medium fat spread”.  Yum. We walked across the highway to an outside tented catholic church. They had live singers, and I was hoping it would be more of a “Halleluiah and Amen” experience than it was. Church went on for 3 hours in Swahili- we understood none of it. I think we got off lightly, as we were told church can go for 8 hours! Raven was bored stiff, but the singing was worth it. 
 We walked back for lunch- a dish of unripe bananas, cooked in water and grated carrots. We also had a chopped spinach dish, cooked with onion. More rice and beans, as well. This meal will be eaten two times a day. Raven loves the food- she has been eating seconds, as well as thirds. Fatuma cooks and preps meals in the front yard or front steps, on an outside burner with charcoal. 

Fatuma's kitchen

In the afternoon we finally met Baraja and were chaperoned to the orphanage, via a micro bus along the highway. We were told we were going to take motorbikes the rest of the way- that sounded pretty fun. It turned out that the pika pika were motorbike taxis! This makes sense as the dirt roads are rutted and uneven. They are bone dry this time of year, I think the rainy season ended early this year. I couldn’t even imagine the passage in the monsoon. The ten minute (1000 Tsh = 60 cent) ride was super fun. The orphanage housed 27 kids from ages 3 on. They were super stoked to see us, play with our hair and hang out. It was similar to the orphanage in Nepal, but the kids have even less.  There are less volunteers and less support given to these very needy, unwanted and unloved kids. The woman that founded the Buloma Foundation is working really hard to get support for these kids. They have a real home here, the staff love them and their home is slowly improving, small donation by small donation.





 
bit of hair braiding fun

More soon!

No comments:

Post a Comment